Recently I have seen in Sindelfingen Badezentrum a lovely image: a mother she was not yet a year old child in her hands and pulled it through the water, they paved the waterway with his back and pulled the child back running behind him. But that was not something special. The special was that the mother communicated continuously, alone with her facial expressions. The child may well have felt the warm water, but it hung on with great dedication and attention to the face of the mother, it was fascinating. I think it escaped him, nothing. Mother's face was full of love for her child, she sent him to kiss, they morste with eyes love everything about her Face were sparks of love, which she did more, they also showed that expression ... not one of the many thousands of facial expressions was the same facial expression ... a spark of love ... for her child.
And they seemed to have no fitness problems. It seemed to me forever, that the two turtelten through the water. Most of all I would have told the mother how important and wonderful it is, what it does. But I love her game would have to stop, and I did not, of course. And it was a love game and how important it is for the child's future love games, it is clear on the background of the quotation from Joachim Bauer's seminal book on mirror neurons :
that we start with an innate, genetically linked basic configuration of mirror neurons in the life shows itself in a phenomenon that without it would not be possible: For the correct selection Distance infants begin within hours or days after birth, certain facial expressions that they see to imitate spontaneously. Opens to meet them face-looking mouth, they do the same. In a face with pursed mouth, the baby responds by itself curls his lips, and it sticks out his tongue when he blogs braiding. With its amazing ability to imitate the infant has already from the first days of life the opportunity to engage a two-way game, which leads to develop secure interpersonal bonds. The neurobiological term willingness to spontaneous imitation document is the framework around which develops the relationship between infant and caregiver. Between the newborn and the primary caregiver now begins something whose magic can be compared only with the situation of fresh love. And actually happened from a neurobiological point of view in both cases something very similar: a two-way recording reflecting and returning signals, a sensing and feeling of what the other straight, moving in the true sense of the word, accompanied by the experimenter, even sending out signals and see how far they reflected back from the opposite, that is to be returned. This game is not only at the beginning of a love relationship, it is, in less intense form, the starting point of any interpersonal relationship.
Many children never experience what this child was able to experience that I could see at that time. Many lie on a cold storage and are wrapped and unloving mother barely speaks to them ... But more to fill cells with a corresponding charge, because of any movement are copies made in the brain of the child and these copies are active when they do according to himself or to recognize, therefore, some children respond later, more to love, some with indifference and cold, and are children always feel this to be normal, what they have learned.
Above all, many people do not know what love is.
Yet, how do they share with all my heart to a future partner, what they do not know?
How many fundamentally indifferent love games played on the Earth every day?
Many love games, movement games with a certain degree of mental and physical emotion, ...
All men call love, amore, láska, svegi, love, what be with the individuals around the world is not different can.
Our parents give us something specific to the term "love", which also could not be more different.
Some call for love is like a secret pizza in a brick is. Thus love is true for some indigestible ... only they do not know it.
My parents talked a lot about love, but she always talked about God's love.
They did not know what love is, but they did it very well camouflaged.
who talks so much about love, the love of God, must know what love is.
chance!
I think a lot of escape not only the monastery, but the religious or esoteric, not to have to deal with their own lack of love. But they flee from a load, they do not have to bear. Who can but have to admit: I do not know what love is.
who grow up without love, with a heavy mortgage. But hardly anyone can be a higher consciousness of love than the one that - the lack of knowing - is suffering from the knowledge of their own lack of love ... then when he opens his heart to love.
My motto: Always be able to fill the cells with love, always can open a heart for love.
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